About Shelama
Shelama — Peace, Wholeness, Completeness
Shelama, provides compassionate end-of-life support tailored to the unique needs of individuals and families facing serious illness. My approach is rooted in empathy and understanding, ensuring that every client receives thoughtful guidance and practical assistance throughout their journey, fostering a supportive environment during challenging times.
Meet your Doula
Vivi Kosowsky
End-of-Life Doula | Speech & Language Therapist | Animal-Assisted Therapist
My Story
Assisting my father through his end-of-life journey was a deeply humbling experience and a profound privilege. It taught me how meaningful it can be to help someone approach the end of life on their own terms, in an atmosphere of peace, dignity and respect for their wishes.
This experience sparked an interest in end-of-life care and, over time, a sense of calling to help others navigate this journey.
Having participated in tahara with the Chevra Kadisha in South Africa, I have a profound appreciation for the dignity and sanctity of life. My years as a speech and language therapist and animal-assisted therapist have taught me the importance of truly listening, understanding people's needs and supporting families with sensitivity and compassion.
Building on this experience, I pursued specialised end-of-life doula training with INELDA (International End of Life Doula Association).
The Gift of Foresight
Over the years, I have witnessed how often individuals and families find themselves facing the end of life unprepared. Difficult decisions must suddenly be made, sometimes without knowing what their loved one would have wanted. This uncertainty can lead to unnecessary distress, disagreements and feelings of guilt.
I believe that preparing for the end of life is one of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves and those we love. Having open conversations, making our wishes known and putting plans in place can bring clarity, reassurance and peace of mind to
everyone involved.
Through Shelama, my hope is to help individuals approach this stage of life with dignity and choice, while supporting families with compassion, understanding and practical guidance.
Jewish Values
While end-of-life decisions are profoundly individual, I can help navigate the halakhic implications of different choices and facilitate further consultation where needed.
Why Shelama?
I believe that the prospect of death doesn't have to inspire fear. With thoughtful planning, gentle support and respect for individual wishes, the end of life can be peaceful and meaningful. Just as every life is unique, so too is every person's final journey.
Through Shelama, I offer a listening ear, gentle guidance and practical support, empowering people to decide how they live their final chapter.